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Not a competing product. Two different problems, and conflating them is why some leaders think this base is covered when it isn’t.
Leo Judkins, Founder, The iGaming Leader · September 2026
I’ll say this upfront, because it’s true and because most people selling a mastermind won’t say it: I recommend everybody has an executive coach. Genuinely. It’s not a competing product, and I’m not going to pretend otherwise to make a sales point.
But a coach and a mastermind solve two different problems, and conflating them is why some people think they’ve already covered this base when they haven’t.
Several of our own members have worked with executive coaches, some still do, and the fair, honest version of what that gives them is real. A good coach helps you clarify your own thinking. They help you understand yourself, your patterns, your blind spots about your own behaviour, your insecurities, how you handle change. That’s genuinely valuable work, and it’s not work a room full of peers is built to do. A mastermind isn’t therapy, and it isn’t designed to help you understand your own psychology. That’s a coach’s job, and a good coach does it well.
Here’s where the line sits. Even the best coaching question carries a direction in it. Every question has some intention behind it, some lens the coach is looking through, however skilled they are at hiding it. That’s not a criticism of coaching, it’s just what a question is.
And there’s a deeper limit underneath that. You can’t tell someone what to do and expect it to stick. The moment you tell them, they start doubting it, because it’s not theirs. The moment they arrive at it themselves, they own it completely. So the real value in that kind of conversation isn’t advice, it’s a story specific enough that someone hears it and thinks, "Oh, I hadn’t thought about that." And a story like that can only come from someone who has actually lived the exact decision you’re facing, not someone applying a general framework to it from the outside.
That’s the part coaching can’t manufacture. A coach, however experienced, hasn’t necessarily built and run the exact kind of business you’re running, in this industry, at this scale, and made the exact call you’re stuck on. They can help you think more clearly about the decision. They can’t hand you the specific scar tissue from having made it themselves.
A coach gives you first-level thinking applied brilliantly to a problem that feels unique to you. A peer who’s actually lived through that same problem can tell you it isn’t unique at all, and more usefully, tell you exactly what failed when they tried it, what worked, and what they’d do differently if they had to make the call again.
On sales calls, people sometimes push back with "I already have a coach, why do I need this too." My honest answer is always the same: you can do both, and I’d recommend you do.
A coach gives you outside perspective on the decision itself, drawn from their own battle scars and mistakes, so you don’t have to make identical ones. That’s genuinely useful, applied to a problem that feels unique to you. But it’s usually not unique. Other people have already lived through the exact version of it you’re facing. How much more useful would it be to know precisely what failed when they tried it, and precisely what they’d do differently now?
That’s not a coach’s job. That’s what a room of the right peers is for.
If you’ve got a coach, keep them, and use us for the thing they were never built to provide: peers who’ve actually made the call you’re sitting on, and will tell you exactly what happened when they did.
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No, they’re not competing for the same job. A coach helps you understand yourself and clarify your thinking. A mastermind gives you peers who’ve lived the exact decision you’re facing and can tell you what actually happened.
Even an experienced coach is typically working with you one-on-one, applying frameworks and questions. What they can’t fully replicate is a room of peers who’ve built the same kind of business as you, at your scale, and made the same category of decision.
They can, but being told rarely lands the same way as arriving at a conclusion yourself, especially alongside someone else’s real story. Ownership of the decision matters as much as the quality of the advice.
Most senior executives already spend on personal development in some form. The question isn’t whether to invest in getting better decisions, it’s whether one input alone is covering both jobs, self-understanding and lived, specific experience, when it can only really do one.
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